New Drivers, New Perspectives
My friend told me that his daughter, who turns 16 this month, wanted a Volkswagen New Beetle or a MINI for her birthday "because they're cute." My friend's daughter didn't explain why those particular models interested her, but I think "driving something stylish" was the primary, and perhaps the only, criterion. Practical issues such as safety, fuel economy, reliability, and affordability were not factors in her decision.
Finding the right car for a newly-licensed driver is not easy. For the past few months, my friend has been calling me at least twice daily and with a new question each time. "Which is safer, the New Beetle or the Mini? Is the Mini really that good? What about Scion? Do you think she'd like a Scion? What do you think about certified used cars? Is Audi good?"
In the beginning, I was happy to provide my perspective. I gave comprehensive answers and clear, objective advice. Lately, however, I've begun to realize that although my friend hears me, he's not really listening. Each time I finish answering, he immediately says something like "that's great" or "oh, I couldn't agree more." Then he moves on to other automotive topics with a host of new questions. "Should I lease or buy? Are extended warranty plans worth the money? Should I put a down payment on a lease? Why is buying a car so difficult?"
I can't keep up. Lately, I've adopted his strategy, responding with a well-placed "right," "uh huh," or "exactly" to make him think I'm listening, but I'm really not. I think his problems started when he asked his daughter what kind of car she wanted. Her initial response was "either a BMW or a Mercedes, preferably a convertible." At least she is honest, and I don't blame her for trying. At her high school in Thousand Oaks, California, it's not uncommon to see teenage drivers piloting expensive European sedans or Cadillac Escalades and Chevy Corvettes, courtesy of generous parents.
I know my friend wants to satisfy his daughter's self-professed sense of style, but asking a new driver what kind of car she wants is like asking an indoor rock climber what it's like to climb Mount Everest. When her father brought her back to reality and explained the financial aspect of the decision, she didn't quite understand. I know she heard him, but she also wasn't really listening. Eventually, she acquiesced, resigned to the fact that she'll never be the envy of her high school classmates.
In the end, it came down to affordability. After her father test drove the Mazda3, the MINI, the New Beetle, and various Scions, he narrowed the choice to two models, the MINI and the New Beetle. With a few options and a three-year lease, the Beetle was $238 with drive offs—mostly taxes and registration fees—which equal $1,700. He also test drove the MINI, for which he was quoted $385 a month with $1,000 down. Although he felt that the MINI was "in a different class," he couldn't justify the $147 difference in monthly payments.
I wonder if he would have made the same decision if he had really listened to my advice.











